KAL HO NA HO..................................................

It's 2 am and I just finished watching the movie which is very close to my heart...Yes, you guessed it right by seeing the title "Kal ho na ho"...The movie without which me and my life is incomplete..Movie taught me many things in many ways..what if you completely get changed by a single movie of 3 hours which teaches you so much for rest of your life?? I was very serious kinda guy before just like Preity Zinta (Naina in the movie) but watching liveliness of shahrukh(Aman in the movie), I transformed my self just as Naina in the movie.......u might be wondering how??? ah haaa for that you have to read below....

First part.....Shahrukh's entry.....his way of making people smile...jelling on with people so easily......teasing Naina as chasmish.....was first of way bringing a thought, can I be like him in my life.......bindaas guy???

Second part.........Shahrukh's dialogue outside Naina's house which was the first step to transform Naina's life and also mine... It goes like this...
Sssshhhhhh...tumhe aisa  kyu lagta hai ki duniya ka saara boz tumhare kandho par hai....tum ho kaun....who are you??? Ishwar ki prathna karne ka kya fayda jab uski zindagi ki kadar karna na jaano....tumhare paas jo hai tumhare hisaab se kam hai..par kisi or ki nazaro se dekho to tumhare pass bahut kuch hai....Suno...Jeeyo, khush raho muskurao..kya pata KAL HO NA HO....

After this dialogue when Naina goes into her room..and recollects the word said by Aman that did she really forgot smiling?? in the same way I also thought whole day that am I really taking life very seriously...then my heart said yes you are.....Life is simple.....Don't make it complicated....you have everything given by GOD be happy for what you are...

2nd part in movie......when Naina comes to Aman's house in a gorgeous white dress....sits beside him and says....tum aaye hamari zindagi me or itna kuch badal gaya....and Aman says maine sab tumhare liye kiya.......tum yahi sun na chahti ho na....and tells her Hey Dorky..and remove her spakes.......and from next scene onwards she wears lenses...I couldn't remove spakes  because lenses are not allowed at my home..hehehehe...This was the 2nd part of transformation in both of our life.....

When you slowly realize that life is simple, then you actually start feeling happy about yourself and you feel things are really beautiful around you...I felt same when I started thinking about it..........It took handsome time for me to change my self but now I am much more confident about my self ....more lively now.....and fun to be around as my friends says me...good to hear that right???


To be contd..............as movie progresses further.........................

"MY BROAD PURVIEW ON THE GREATER INTRICACIES OF EXISTENCE"

There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. 

here I starts......... 

Sometimes, I sit alone and ponder, y am I so perplexed about the intricacies of my life... Is it my inner fear which is fetching me to the road of duskiness, or it's just a misconception about my life ?? 

When we were children , we were blissful, without a care in the world and unknown about the misgivings of life." Kitne Haseen the na woh din" ,woh dosto k saath masti karna, MAA k aanchal me sar rakh kar sona, teachers ko tang karna, ice-cream khaate hue chehra ganda karlena,aaj bhi woh din yaad aate hai to aankhen bhar aati hai or peeche mudke dekhte hai thou yehi sochte hai ki woh din to lotke nahi aa sakte bas rehgayi hai to woh simti hui yaadein." But as we grew older we have become more responsible towards our life and slowly we realised that life is not that easy at it looked in childhood. Now we have to tighten our belts rest of our life.. I remember my Parents use to tell me.... 

" Son, there will come many situations in your life where you will feel Demoralized, willing to quit the race, but that is the only time to understand the life and take another step towards the ultimate milestone, and it touched my heart." 

I decided from that day onwards that whatever the situation life throws at me I would face it with smile on my face. But friends I would like to ask you one thing... " Can you walk on thorns with smile on your face.....Think?????? But if you cross it with Smile on your face then there you win.. Same is the case with Life... 

Here is one Quote 

“When we're incomplete, we're always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we're still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”
I would like to share with you the important things I learned from my life...... 

Always respect your Parents, because you are in this world because of them and if you don't then you don't deserve happiness in your life..... 

Never be jealous of anyone, do you know The Law of Sow and Reap, It says we get back from the life only what we put to it..even I remember Newton's 3rd law of motion, Every action has an equal and opposite reaction...... 

Always keep excelling in your Life , profound your thoughts to the extent that no one can defeat you........ 

Never compare yourself with anyone in this world, because you are the creator of your own destiny.. 

Try 2 save what you earn today, because a Penny saved today, is a Happiness tomorrow. 

Never be afraid of defeat, because the more your learn from your experiences the more valuable you become. 

The thing I hate most is politics in the mind of people who for their own benefit try to demean other person. I know that this would happen throughout life but if at that point of time if you believe in yourself and keep moving ahead with optimistic mindset you will surely taste the success. 

Never have Pessimistic Attitude in Life, always be Optimistic.... 

This is one Quote on attitude, I will remember whole my life which I want to share with u all..Here it goes.. 

“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our Attitudes.”

It's really true that Life is 10% unpredictable and 90% of how we react.. I have always kept in my mind that "Our Attitude decides our Altitude". 

I would like to write more... but for the time being i could pen down only this much...but will keep writing..............................and do remember........

GIVE YOUR BEST SHOT AND LET GOD KNOW YOU DIDN'T MISS THE TARGET..